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Sexual Revolution

Friday, April 18th, 2008

Playboy. The first prerequisite for sexual revolution was appearance (at the end of 1953) of a new men’s magazine - Playboy. It was an adult magazine targeted to a sophisticated urban male audience. The magazine advocated a philosophy that was very new to people. It was that sex is a natural, wholesome and healthy human act - not something to hide. Sex was a great activity, which normal single man can share with the girl.

Marilyn Monroe (on the December 1953 Playboy reprint featuring Miss December 1953 - Marilyn Monroe) and Hugh Hefner explained to people that sexual act is as natural as eating and sleeping, and at the same way more funny and pleasant. Hefner sold over seven million of copies, thanks to “new Playboy philosophy”. People began looking at their sexual selves in new ways. So, Marilyn and Hugh played a key role in shaping 20th century sexual history.

Free love. In the middle 1960s in San Francisco was formed a new culture of “free love” with thousands of young, attractive people, who preached the idea of love and the beauty and power of sex as part of ordinary student life. They believed that sexual satisfaction in love is the main thing; it makes the difference between being in a good relationship and being in an unhappy relationship.

P.S.: 1960 - development of the birth control pill, which gave women access to easy contraception.

Internet. The world started to get online in the mid 1990s. People are searching different things online, but “sex” is the number one search topic on the Internet. Accurate statistics regarding the use of Internet sexual sites (pornography or escort services) are difficult to obtain. However, statistics demonstrate staggering numbers of sexual Internet resources; there are at least 635,000,000 connected with sex web pages currently available.

In the late 1960s and early 1970s the sexual revolution was a substantial, very important change in people’s sexual behaviors and thoughts all over the globe. We can’t say that the sexual revolution involved major changes in sexual behavior. Many people have suggested that the main change was not that people had more sex or different types of sex; it was simply that they talked about gays, lesbians, homosexual or bisexual relationship more openly than previous generations had done. Historian David Allyn says: “It was a time of coming-out: about premarital sex, masturbation, erotic fantasies, pornography use, and, of course, homosexuality.”

Nowadays, promotion of sex on screen and acceptance of frontal nudity by men and women on stage became the norm in many European countries. Sexual entertainment, for example striptease and escorts services are highly popular. Men came to be entertained by topless women at night-clubs; there are a lot of high class escort agencies, where people (males and females) can hire escorts to full fill all their dreams and wishes, also there are a great variety of organization for bisexual, homosexual people and so on. What more we can expect from sexual revolution in future?

Top Welcome Datemate

Thursday, February 28th, 2008

It’s always interesting, exiting to know with whom people want to date. Let’s see.

British women prefer Italian stereotypes. They believe they are better looking and know how to seduce and be seduced. The study shows that British escorts (including London escorts) want to date with: Italian (42%), Spanish (28%), French (21%), Swedish (7%), German (3%) guys. British men want to date women from: Sweden (36%), Spain (25%), Italy (18%), France (14%), Germany (7%). It means that 36% of British male’s population prefer to date Swedish escorts (unbelievable, but the fact).

And what about the Swedish women? Statistics show that every fifth Swedish woman between the ages of 18 and 35 has engaged in online dating. The survey also found that 29 percent of young women have used the internet to establish romantic or sexual relationships, with a further 13 percent willing to give it a try. It sounds strange, but most of Swedish ladies would rather date a British man than a man of any other nationality.

According to online dating agency Match.com thirty nine percent of Swedish escorts favoured British guys in the survey, even preferring them to attractive, handsome and fiery Latin lovers from Southern Europe. In their turn, more one in three British men said they want to date Swedish escorts because they are better looking, take relationships seriously and are more communicative, open minded. Louise Raggett, psychologist and relationship adviser used to comment this fact: “This is good news for British guys in that it appears from the survey that they have a real chance with what many of them would see as their dream European escort. It seems that Swedish women believe that British men take their romantic relationships very seriously and are attracted by this. And we can understand why British guys are attracted to Nordic looks. Light hair was associated with being young and so, for evolutionary reasons beneath the level of conscious awareness, in choosing sexual partners, blondes were best for reproductive success.”

Another situation is with French and German daters. Only 12% of French guys and girls say they would consider dating a British person and only 13% of British want cross-channel love. 43% of Germans would never date a British escort and the British feel the same with over 60% saying they would never date a German.

The purpose of dating is to meet someone we like on a romantic and personal level but dating can also mean casual sex or friendship. The most popular answers on the question “What is dating about?” are: Love 21%, Marriage 19%, Friendship 8%, Partnership 6%, Sex 19%, Company 3%, Social life 3%, Romance 12%, Conversation 3%, Sharing 6%. Dating hasn’t gone anywhere, the desire for people to meet others is as strong as ever, and its become international community due to new communication methods. Today you can find a lot of dating websites. Hosting millions of members looking for love and dating agencies make deals with thousands of such people all over the world.

Why Girls Visit Disco Clubs?

Tuesday, February 12th, 2008

It is rather ridiculous to think that women go to the clubs just to dance. Of course, they visit disco clubs sometimes for this reason, but not so often. First of all, a lady wants to find her best half companion. The ideal situation is being accompanied with terrible, frightful, dreadful, fearful and awful girlfriend. It will give an opportunity to collect all high class men and to attract attention to yourself. You can stay near bar, drinking apple juice (let’s everybody thinks that you are drinking whiskey) and wait for the “big fish”.

But the problem is how to recognize “who is who”? It’s difficult to get acquainted with large-scale politics or famous stars in the club. They prefer private parties, the reasons of this preference are rather simple: large-scale politics have pot-bellies and terrible wives, famous stars haven’t got time. Businessmen are a great solution, but they are not in a huge demand. Dancers, fashionable students, rich parent’s children, managers are not interesting in serious relationship. That’s why if your goal is to find your second part, do not get acquainted with this group of people.

One night stand is a good perspective for students, escorts or idlers. It can be an exiting thing. It is a product of a mutual agreement between two people, when they don’t particularly want a relationship with each other or have any interest in each other on an emotional, dating level, the sex still might be great, gorgeous experiencing. Once one of my friend (rather fat guy) told me that he is very tired of pretty young companions, who after two hours of contact go to his apartment, than love him “with passion”, after talking the stories about hard, dog life and asking for money. This man, of course, knows all club escorts face-to-face.

But, it’s not right to think that only escort ladies go clubbing. There are also male escorts. Before trying to disagree with me, think twice. Imagine the situation that there is a club only for women (it’s unreal, but try to imagine), this establishment will become bankrupt in two weeks after opening. You will ask me why only after two weeks? The answer is simple, it’s the third reason why females go to the clubs.

They want to show themselves and to see others. To state the value of rivals – is the main reason. A huge amount of females wear luxurious, attractive clothes, do lovely make-up not for men, but for women. A lady wants to excel in everything her rivals and be certain that “she is the best from the best”. If you don’t believe me, have a look at women’s toilet at peak hours. It’s impossible to notice everything near the bar, another situation behind the toilet’s door. There is good lighting and you can see all pastes, labels, stickers.

Another reason for women visit disco clubs, because they want to relax after hard working day, forget about boyfriend or husband, be far from “grey life outside”. The club gives you the illusion of holiday, festival for some hours.    

6 Tips For Attracting A Woman

Friday, February 1st, 2008

If you want to make a great impression on your lovely companion, you don’t need a guitar, or even flowers. Just follow these tips, and she’ll want to be with you.

1. Go out with another woman. It sounds strange, but it works. If you’re going out to a club or a restaurant, take a female friend, high class escort or your sister with you. Women are often more amenable to talking to men who are with other women. It gives them the feeling that you actually like women, it means that you can be not only a great guy, but also a helpful friend, and that’s attractive.

2. Look women into the eyes. It seems elementary, but you’d be surprised at how many guys either undress a woman with their eyes or avoid eye contact altogether. Women love it when you look them into the eye. It means that you are an open person and want to be truthful with her. It costs a lot for every woman.

3. Respect her and don’t try to “buy” her. If you buy a drink for her, she is obligated to say thank you and that’s it. If she accepts the drink, the polite thing for her to do would be to spend a little time talking to you, but that’s all. On the other hand, if a woman takes the drink and walks away (sometimes it happens), let her go. You wouldn’t want spend time with her, anyway. If it’s an escort lady, of course, you will pay for escorts services, but don’t think that you can “buy” her. These companions “sell” their services and nothing more.

4. Listen more, talk less. Don’t try to impress her! Don’t brag about your Diploma at Oxford University, or the fact that you’re a respectful businessman with a solid reputation. In other words, this is no time to discuss how oil prices are rising every day, what a witch your ex-girlfriend was, or that your parents never gave you enough attention. Instead of speaking ridiculous things, ask questions and listen for the answers. Give your opinions. Get her talking about what she’s crazy about, whether it’s Michelangelo or fashion. Try to know your companion.

5. Be celibate. Do not try to go to bed with an escort right away. Sure, she will give a chance, but if you’re hoping for a lasting relationship, try not “do it” too soon. Crazy as it sounds, if she sleeps with you, she may not be interesting in you or she may forget about you in the morning (you didn’t know that, did you?). She will figure that you get into bed with every high class companions you met, which means that you are light, material boyfriend. Or she may be the type who thinks that you get acquainted with her because she can sleep with you. So, the best advice I can give you is get to know a companion before getting into bed with her.

6. Call her. If you said you were going to call, you can wait for two days, but no longer. If you’re not interested in a woman, do not (I repeat), do not say you’ll call. Say, “Nice meeting you,” and be on your way. Besides, collecting numbers to feed your male ego, try to find a right person.

And finally, treat your partner and don’t be afraid of failures. The media thrust a point of view on us that men and women come from different planets and have different minds, but we’re all human. Some of the biggest losers in love are women who complain that all men are the same, they all want one thing, and so on. But in reality we are the same people, we are eating and drinking the same products, thinking about the same things and have the same ideas, wishes and desires.

In Search For A Perfect Companion

Thursday, January 24th, 2008

People all over the world are dreaming about a perfect companion, of the perfect escort who will understand their every need before they say it and match their inner image of woman / man at their best. This person is the perfect counterpart, someone they will be proud to be seen with everywhere.

Each person has their own specific dream of the perfect soul mate. For some men she’s beautiful, sexual and attractive unconditionally loving, giving him whatever he wants. She should be the best wife, the best friend and the best escort at the same time. For women he is handsome, smart, intelligent, tidy and attentive, but really each woman has her own idea of what constitutes the right man for her. Therefore, each female does know what she needs romantically and the specific type of man that she indeed would want that man to be as much as possible.

A man does not have to be the perfect man either by buying his companion an expensive dinner to show her that she is special either. There are some other things that a man can do to impress a woman and win her attention. First, make a good impression by being nicely dressed and practising enviable personal hygiene. Second, every woman likes a man who knows how to maintain a good conversation with her. In this respect, stay a gentleman in every sense of the word by opening a door for her by showing your good manners. Third thing, ask her questions that will help to get to know her personally. And finally, don’t discuss sex at all as it is very inappropriate!

Honestly, if you want to find a perfect man / woman, don’t try to find it. The perfect person does not exist on our planet. Everyone has faults from birth. These faults are the things that make us different, original. And it’s great! If you are waiting for a perfect image, you will wait for years and finally be upset. One of the powerful aspects of waiting for the perfect lover is the belief that the person will always stay exactly the same. But in reality it doesn’t work.

If there is no perfect person on this planet, a woman / man should seek to find their best halves who not only attracts them, but also one whom they feel is right in every way. This is no easy task to perform or do. Because finding the right man just like finding the right woman does not happen every day. Nor does it usually happen within a day either. You can spend a fantastic, full of pleasure and satisfaction night with a charming, luxurious and elite escort, but it does not mean that this person is your long-expected lover. Don’t wait for a perfect person, be realistic and try to find right men / women now because the people you get to know may change your ideals and make you look at the people you have known for long at a different angle. Sometimes it takes a lot of time to find the right person, sometimes just a few minutes.

Erotic Dreams

Thursday, December 27th, 2007

Erotic dreams play an important role in women’s and men’s private lives. Statistics shows that a lot of men have many erotic dreams in their teens, 20s and 30s. The number of these erotic dreams tend to get less with age, but plenty of sexually-charged males continue to experience pleasant sexual dreams far into their 50s and 60s. And what about women’s erotic dreams? Contrary to studies done in the 1990s in the United Kingdom, female companions had as many sexual dreams as men did. But, there are some differences between women’s and men’s dreams:

1. If you’re a man, most likely you are dreaming about sex with someone you don’t know, possibly someone who doesn’t exist in the real world.

2. If you are a woman, your dream is probably about sex with your partner or a partner from your past.

3. Men have erotic dreams with multiple sex partners twice as often as women did.

4. 74 % of men want to make their sexual dreams real in public place, in compare with 14% of women.

5. In erotic dreams 89% of female escorts make love, 83% of men take part in porn.

6. Male’s erotic dreams: three women in a hot jacuzzi in public pool, three women in one bed, three women enjoying each other on a deserted beach where he just happen to be taking a lazy walk and so on.

7. Sometimes right, pleasant, lovely words can be the most dreaming thing for a woman in contrast to a man. Never mind in what kind of relationship you are with woman, never say to her something like this: “I’m never getting married again” or “I’m ready to start having children”, “You remind me my ex” or “My first wife was prettier, but you can screw a lot better”. It works like “antiviagra”.

8. Movie stars, actors and politicians are twice as likely to be the object of women’s sexual dreams. So women like dreaming about powerful, good-looking, famous men.

9. The most popular male’s dreaming type: bisexual young busty unknown London escort. Female’s type: handsome ex boyfriend with dark hair and blue eyes.

10. 4 % of sex dreams among men and women resulted in an orgasm. 6% of women’s dreams featured a partner having an orgasm in contrast to 0% of men.

Women have more emotion in their dreams and often dream about food, clothing, work and personal appearance. Men, on the other hand, dream about other men (companions), violence, cars and weapons. And at the same time sexual, erotic dreams are very popular among both men and women.

“Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly.

Hold fast to dreams, for when dreams go, life is a barren field, frozen with snow.”

(William Carlos Williams)

People’s fantasies are so great – we can make up anything we like and nobody can stop us!

Things Any Man Needs To Know About Women

Thursday, December 20th, 2007

1 When a woman tells you her problems, she does not want you to offer solutions.

2 Ladies always prefer having something kind of illness, like a headache or backache or something. But you need to remember no matter how bad it sounds, she’ll be glad to spend this evening with you.

3 Never trust a lady who has no girl friends. She doesn’t get along with other women because she’s may be crazy or can’t deal with other people.

4 She still has all the love letters, messages and cards from her ex boyfriends.

5 Sixteen percent of American men have been with a female escorts, scientific proof is that most women are good in bed.

6 For women it is so strange when men can easily separate love and sex.

7 Statistic shows that women on overage kissed 79 men before getting married.

8 Unless they’re lesbians, she won’t approve of your hanging out with other girls. Even if they’re terrible, ugly or very, very tall.

9 If you have something to hide, she’ll find it, no matter today or in a year, believe it or not she will do it.

10 82 of males per 100 females ratio is in Great Britain, 85 in India. The highest male-to-female ratio is in Salinas, California: 114 males for every 100 females. Think twice.

11 You need to kiss her during two dates, on the other hand you will become her best friend only.

12 An online dating service’s survey found out the fact that a woman’s ideal is an attractive man with brown hair and blue eyes.

13 A woman can say she just wants sex, but after making love she can change her mind.

14 All women want to talk dirty during sex, but they’re afraid you won’t respect them in the morning.

15 Women’s public bathrooms are about three times more popular than men’s.

16 On a first date, women never order what they really want to eat.

17 At least one of her friends wants to sleep with you.

18 All women think they’re cleverer than their partners in some private situations.

19 Ladies do not prefer “home” dating, that’s why invite her to play bowling or eating out.

20 She likes one of your friends.

21 Forty percent of blonde women in the United States colour their hair in dark colour and sixty brunette ladies colour their hair in blonde colour , ridiculous, but a fact.

22 You’ll never know with how many men she had slept before. The most popular lie is five, which really means about 12.

23 A recent study revealed that natural blondes could vanish from the face of the world in 200 years, do not loose your chance to get acquainted with nice slim companion, while they are available.

24 Women need sex no less than men.

25 Statistics shows that only 2 percent of the women (in comparison with 20 percent of men) are ready for first date sex. The reasons can be different: moral, social, religious or she can simple hadn’t time to shave her legs before the date.

And finally keep in mind a quotation of Robert Frost: “A diplomat is a man who always remembers a woman’s birthday but never remembers her age”. Take care about your sweetheart and be a diplomat in yours relationship.

What Does Fashion Mean To You?

Wednesday, November 28th, 2007

Fashion is a way of life, it’s everywhere: in clothes, music, videos, books, television, habits. Even people who say they don’t care what they wear, watch, listen every morning that say a lot about them and how they feel that day. Fashion is a language which tells a story about the person.

Fashion is a huge business. A lot of people all over the world are involved in the buying, selling and production of clothes, music, videos, books and so on. Everyday books and magazines, websites give us ideas about what to wear, listen, watch, where to spend free time and with whom.

You can find the most fashionable places in every corner of the world. London is the world famous city in vogue. There are a lot of restaurants, pubs, clubs, cosmopolitan shops, escorts agencies, ladies in style. The most popular area are  Harvey Nichols Fifth Floor Restaurant, Cafe and Bar, Koko Club, Kensington Roof Gardens, Ronnie Scott’s (jazz club), Park Lane Girls (escorts agency), Café De Paris, Tamarai, Paper.

 Take a brief interveiw dediacted to the topic: ”What does fashion mean to you?” to get answers  like:

1.  Fashion doesn’t mean anything to me. It is me, the same way that my hair is me, my fingers are me, my smile is me, my walk is me, etc..

2.      Oscar Wilde said: “Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable we have to alter it every six months.”  Sounds quite believable theses days

3.      To me, fashion is a term that usually relates to a prevailing method of expression, but quite often applies to a personal manner of expression that may or may not apply to all. It is very personal.

4.    Once I got acquainted with a charming high-class escort in London, it was the most fashionable day in my life. It’s a fashion for me, to spend fantastic time with lovely, beautiful woman sitting in restaurant or going parting.

5.   Fashion is important in terms of art, expression, and appearance. It also has the potential to brand you, both in terms of your personality, as well as your social class.

6.      Fashion is being naked, only with various clothes on top.

Fashion can change our life, these changes are necessary to keep it interesting. At the same time, fashion is a sort of fun. It’s really fantastic if a person can change his style, look, his surroundings. It’s a way of measuring a mood that can be useful in many aspects, privately, culturally, socially even psychologically.

Getting Over The Shyness

Tuesday, October 30th, 2007

Have you ever been in a situation where you suddenly saw a really beautiful woman and you felt your knees get weaker and your pulse rise? This feeling may escort you anywhere: in a public transport, a nightclub, bar, party, even in the street, in a food or a grocery store. And you automatically start to think about what you can say to the lady to start a conversation, how to win her interest? At the end you think that the best idea is not to begin conversation and fall off. And even though you know that you’re a good man with nice personality and have attractive, respectful qualities, somehow you may have excluded the fact that you can be with the woman of you dreams, wishes, desires. How many times has it happened with you? Maybe several times? Maybe all the time? It’s a fear of beautiful woman. And you know, the worst thing is that she can go with someone often right in front of your eyes. And those men can be not so brilliant, admirable, comely than you.

The reason is simple, you should make the first step. There is, honestly, no logical reason why some men find it hard to get acquainted with charming lady. You need just to remember some rules and don’t panic!

Firstly be yourself in every situation. Don’t try to be better than you are. We all have defects and it’s not a surprise.

Secondly, women is not looking for sexual partner solely. Her desire is to find a handsome cute friend with vivid imagination and sense of humor. Such women are the most hungry for good friendship. Start a conversation by asking a simple (not serious) question. Strange as it might seem you will be surprised to know that if a woman thinks you are a cute man she will reply, and in most of the cases with a polite, nice, marvelous smile. And the main important thing, a lot of woman are not thinking that they are superb, pretty and well-formed, their inferiority complex is more terrible than you can imagine. On another hand, if they know that they are luxurious ladies, they will have fear of man. Everything in this life are in accordance with the laws of nature.

Instead of being awed by women, you should immediately approach any nice escort that affects your interest. Don’t forget if you never approach a woman, then you’ll always loose. You need practice. If you do this by reflex, your angers, fears, worries will easily fade away. Just get into the practice of approaching charming lady in the street, woman in a bar or escort girl you find interesting. It’s a guarantee of your future success.